Bad Parents

By Captain Jack
Published/Last Modified on Saturday, January 16, 2010 12:06 PM CST

Last week report cards were handed out at my son's school; parents were told they could pick their child's report card up and speak to their teachers. While I was waiting in the hall to speak to one of my son's teachers I overheard a conversation between 2 sets of parents, they were bashing the teacher who's class room they stood in front of because apparently her class was too hard. I was appauled at what I heard. In front of their children they were saying what a horrible teacher she was, and her class was too difficult. One of the parents said that this was the only class her child was doing poorly in, and when she asked him why he was doing so bad, he said it was because he did not like the teacher. So she went on and on about how it was the teachers fault that her child was not getting an A in that class. Well, all I can say to that is TUFF! Who cares if your child does not like the teacher, that should have no impact on your childs grades. All this woman was doing was making excuses for her child being lazy! Instead of coming down on the teacher because she is not liked why not come down on the child for not doing what he was supposed to do. It is not the teachers job to be liked, it is not a popularity contest it is his education. Why not make that a learning experience for the boy? Tell him the world is full of people he will not like, or will not like him, and he will just have to deal with it and move on. But no, it is always someone elses fault. Make him accountable for his actions. I spoke to the teacher after she and the other parents spoke to her, and she told me that she has purposefully made the test easier, because she had complaints that her test were too difficult. By the way, I did not tell her what I had overheard. What the teacher told me really upset me. Once again the masses have to suffer because of a few. Lets dumb down the curriculm because she will not put forth the effort to help her child. Thanks whoever you are. Thank you for hindering my childs education because you are too busy watching television to help your child with his studies. But, unfortunately her son will suffer in the end, because of her stupidity. He will probley be the guy working at McDonalds who gives me the wrong order, because his momma  did not make him accountable. Good Luck Little Buddy! You will need it.

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    bad teacher wrote on Feb 4, 2010 2:05 PM:

    " My kids teacher is not the smartest guy in the world ! He is not the nicest either.
    He cares about his students too much to make the test easy.
    Did I mention that I home school my kids !!
    I care very much about my three students, I love them too much, to cheat them out of a good education by making things too easy. "

    To MeMe G wrote on Jan 29, 2010 9:14 AM:

    " It does not mean that the teacher is teaching math "wrong" because he or she is teaching your child math in a different way than you or the tutor accustomed to. Math is taught very differently than it was even five years ago. It does not make him or her an idiot. It just means that he or she is following the curriculum being used at your child's school. If you feel that you are more intelligent than the teacher, I suggest you home school your children. "

    to MeMeG wrote on Jan 25, 2010 7:50 PM:

    " Just because your child said the teacher is being rude doesn't mean it's true. Parents are too quick to believe everything their kids say. Get the real story before you bad mouth the teacher.
    And how embarrasing for you that a conference may need a call to the police. That tells me what kind of person you are. It's a sad day when a teacher can't meet with a parent without the "law". How ignorant are some of you people? "

    to MeMe wrote on Jan 20, 2010 1:38 PM:

    " Why would a one on one conference involve the law unless you already have it in your mind that a violent confrontation is the only type of conference you can have. That exact mentality is one of the reasons we say the parents are not taking responsibility and your example to your child is just as destructive aas the teachers comments. Get out of the thug mentality and become a real parent!!! "

    MeMeG wrote on Jan 20, 2010 7:37 AM:

    " When I sent the teacher a note to because she was acting inappropriately and talking all kinds of rubbish to the students, she tried to embarrass my son by telling the entire class "its you parents fault..." I wanted to go have a 1 on 1 with her, but my hubby didn't want me to get in trouble with the law. I am truly disgested with that school. Dummies can't teach kids. "

    MeMeG wrote on Jan 20, 2010 7:32 AM:

    " My son's teachers are idiots. They don't know how to teach and are even teaching math wrong. Nobody believed me until we got my son a tudor. The tudor was amazed at how my child was being taught to solve some math problems. Do teachers here have to take tests every so often to insure they know what they're doing? Plus they pricnipal is more concerned with keeping the floors unscratched than with whats going on in the calssroom. If you're a teacher, make sure you know what you're doing. "

    franklinite wrote on Jan 20, 2010 7:05 AM:

    " THIS is why things are like they are.1-parents don't want to take responsibility for their children,2-to some it's just another free check,3-get up off your lazy butts and raise your children like we were raised,to do the right things,WORK,and help each other.this is why america IS going down the TOILETS.everyone wants everything for free.if that's what you want your children to understand-MOVE TO ANOTHER COUNTRY!!!! "

    A Concerned Parent wrote on Jan 18, 2010 9:23 PM:

    " Well My son Is in the 2nd grade an his teacher is very rude she tells the kids things like your mother or parents are lazy were did she learned to read... and other things in the class in a way a teacher shouldnt talk to students... they're there to learn not be critized or talked to bad and rude a lot of teachers shouldnt be teachers, your dealing with kids an you hace to have the patients for that line of work if not leave it for someone who does!!!! "

    Teachers Pet wrote on Jan 18, 2010 9:53 AM:

    " Unfortunately there are so-called educators that should be doing something else for a living. As for the parent's you were trying to reach with your post, they more than likely aren't readers of the DI if they can read at all. I don't agree with teachers being spoken badly about in front of the child who is doing poorly in the class either. It is classless and is something that will stay with the child. What I do agree with is confronting the teacher but not with the child in question. Some children do get overlooked. "

    me wrote on Jan 17, 2010 7:58 PM:

    " I love this post. Fnally other parents are standing up and making their children take responsibility for their shortcomings. What a refreshing breeze in the air. I could only wish the parents of these children would take a stand like this and make their children learn responsibility for their own actions. "

    bob wrote on Jan 16, 2010 10:05 PM:

    " keep doing wat you are doing - your child will benefit - ignore those that are not pushing there children - don't push to hard that will go the other way - Love your child - embrass your chiild - nuture your child - do not protect them from the
    world but prepare them for it "

    To CJ wrote on Jan 16, 2010 9:39 PM:

    " Unfortunately those parents are in for more than that. These are parents that become afraid of their kids, teachers just have no choice but to let them slide through the class but the ultimate biggest loosers are the kids. They begin thinking the world owes them because they didn't ask to be born so their hand is always out for handouts. You can actually see a few who've been there and still there and if they're not in prision they have their hopes up for Obama to pay their bills, feed them so they can lay around_on_their.......you_get_the_picture... "

    unfortunately wrote on Jan 16, 2010 7:16 PM:

    " Unfortunately that kid whose parents were saying that the teacher's class was too hard, is NOT going to be working at McDonald's one day. He's going to be the one asking for a check from the state because his lil' life is just soooo hard, you know! Enough blaming teachers, teach your kids accountability and how to deal with the tough situations in this life! I hold my kids accountable for THEIR grades. I warn them, if they blame a teacher I'll ground them. I've YET to meet a teacher who truly doesnt like a kid. Excuses!!! "

    So True wrote on Jan 16, 2010 1:35 PM:

    " Amen ! Excellent post. I refuse to call those like you describe Parents, they are DNA donors, no more. "

    New Iberia Parent wrote on Jan 16, 2010 1:14 PM:

    " Amen!! to that! I couldnt have said it better myself. I agree totally. "

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