Domestic abuse deaths: 4

BY STEVE WILSON
THE DAILY IBERIAN
Published/Last Modified on Sunday, August 3, 2008 6:13 AM CDT

A Thursday homicide in New Iberia represents the fourth time this year domestic violence has taken a life in Iberia Parish, according to SNAP.

Cherlyn Peters, 32, was shot to death in a New Iberia apartment, and her ex-boyfriend, Victor Hill, 27, is now being held in the Iberia Parish Correctional Center  in connection with the incident on charges of second-degree murder, armed robbery and being a felon in possession of a weapon. According to the Iberia Parish Sheriff’s Office, Hill has an extensive criminal record.

Carol Mumm believes this incident underscores the ongoing need to address the issue of domestic abuse.

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Mumm is executive director of Safety Net for Abused Persons Inc., a New Iberia-based agency. Established in 1983 as non-residential program for victims of domestic abuse, the SNAP opened its own shelter in 1991.

Mumm said that domestic abuse, which crosses all ethnic, racial and socioeconomic classes, is about power and control.

“Domestic abuse is a pattern of coercive behavior designed to exert power and control over a person in an intimate relationship through the use of intimidating, threatening, harmful or harassing behavior,” Mumm said. “Domestic abuse is not only physical, but sexual, verbal, emotional and psychological. This includes intimate relationships, such as spouse, former spouse, dating partners, co-habitants, and other family members such as children and brothers and sisters.”

Mumm said that the domestic violence situation in Louisiana tends to be worse than that of other states, with the state often occupying “the top spot” for the amount of domestic violence and related deaths which happen here.

“In addition to the four domestic abuse deaths in 2008, Iberia Parish lost one woman in 1989, three women in 2004, one woman in 2005, and one woman in 2007,” Mumm said. “In the years 2006 and 2007, Louisiana lost a total of 75 women to domestic violence deaths. Currently Louisiana ranks third in the nation as the most lethal state for women.”

Although domestic abuse is widely regarded a a crime committed by a man against a woman, Mumm said this is not always the case.

“Most recently there have been several arrests of women charged with domestic battery,” Mumm said. “An important misconception is that there has to be physical injury for an arrest. We are hopeful that under the new sheriff administration, in collaboration with SNAP, with continuing law enforcement training on domestic abuse, that victims of domestic abuse will receive the justice they deserve.”

Some indicators of domestic abuse include jealousy, putting one’s partner down and name calling, a person making decisions for their partner and isolating them from friends and family. Others include controlling or taking their money, pushing or shoving, threatening homicide or suicide if their partner leaves them, destroying property, abusing pets, and displaying weapons, according to SNAP.

“Without physical injuries, many victims do not consider themselves to be battered women,” Mumm said. “However, physical abuse usually begins with emotional and verbal abuse. Many batterers can maintain control, through intimidation and threats, without use of physical violence. Many women are ashamed and are told by the abuser, ‘If they would change this would not happen to them.’ They begin to believe that it is their fault and try to ‘change’ to please their partners. The ‘change’ is never good enough and batterers will usually never accept responsibility for their actions.”

The Louisiana Attorney General’s Office regards the prevention of domestic violence as a top priority.

“The Attorney General’s Office is available to assist not only law enforcement personnel but the business community as well to address the problem of domestic violence,” said Jennifer Cluck, spokeswoman for the attorney general’s office. “Our domestic violence coordinator travels across the state educating law enforcement on investigation techniques when dealing with domestic violence situations and also trains the business community on how to recognize the signs of domestic violence and the impact domestic violence has on the workplace.”

If you or someone you know is at risk for domestic violence you are encouraged to contact SNAP at 367-SNAP or 276-7071. All calls to SNAP are confidential and its services are free.

Comments

    Southern Fried Brain wrote on Aug 19, 2008 6:26 PM:

    " To Su B,
    There are plenty of ways to find witnesses to her beatings. She MUST have gone to a pharmacy SOMEWHERE to get med supplies. Someone should have SEEN the bruising! This is irrefutable evidence of abuse!
    BUT it does NOT show who did it! That is where the SMSD logs and the reports from the hospital come in!
    If what you are saying is true, then SHAME on the St.Martinville Sheriffs Department!
    Anyone who has read my posts knows how much I FAVOR ANY SO/PD! So-this-is- difficult-to-write!!
    Someone from SMSD want to stand up for what is right?I-know-you-want-to!! "

    Southern Fried Brain wrote on Aug 19, 2008 6:12 PM:

    " To Su B,
    Has your friend gone to a hospital to be checked after the abuse? If yes, there is a paper trail!Use THAT to go ABOVE the SMSD! It is possible! Look for a domestic abuse ombudsman at the STATE level! Local politics will NOT trump {not Donald} the state! You are on the computer, look it up under - .gov -. Also, if she has called the SMSD, and they did NOTHING, It is NOT the fault of the Rank and File, JUST their BOSS! BUT also, there is a paper trail!
    USE IT!! "

    Su B. wrote on Aug 19, 2008 6:18 AM:

    " This is St. Martinville we are talking about. The abusive husband's family is politically connected so the Sheriff's Dept. will not do anything to upset his family. He basically has free reign to use her as a punching bag. His family told her if she leaves they will hire the best lawyers to make sure she is broke and penniless for the rest of her life! Their house is on his grandfather's land. Apparently there is a history of domestic abuse in that family. "

    Southern Fried Brain wrote on Aug 18, 2008 3:10 PM:

    " To Su B,
    Your "friend", should contact a "higher" authority! Do this at once! YOU should also look in to finding a shelter for abused women! Give them the necessary info! Some shelters will come and get the involved party! They can also provide security, if needed, while helping to relocate the battered family! Do all of her friends know about the abuse? If so, why NOT gather together and confront him? If he makes ANY threat to anyone present, there will be witnesses! Have him arrested AGAIN! And Again, and Again! At some point, the Authorities-have-to-take-ACTION!! "

    Su B. wrote on Aug 18, 2008 10:48 AM:

    " I have a girlfriend in Cypress Island who's husband beats the living he11 out of her. She called the Sheriff's dept. to have him arrested after a really bad beating she sustained (2 black eyes and a broken nose). His family are wealthy farmers and bribed the Sheriff to let him go. When he returned home he beat her again for calling the cops. He threatened to kill her and her kids if she leaves. "

    Southern Fried Brain wrote on Aug 17, 2008 3:48 PM:

    " To "With Respect",
    You clearly show NO respect!You wrote 4, yes FOUR words to express your "sorrow"!
    The rest of your nearly 100 words were almost a blame game to the victim!
    If this cretin, Hill, had ANY brain cells still functioning after his, what 27 years, he should have known he was being toyed with!
    Nothing wrong with that! Guys do it too! He obviously cannot control his anger(NOT TO VALIDATE A STANCE FOR "temporary brain dead(insanity)"}!
    And don't try to say she should have gotten one of those "bullet proof" restraining orders!
    ALL-I-CAN-SAY-WITH-THAT-IS "I'd like some FRIED!" "

    To With Respect.... wrote on Aug 17, 2008 6:33 AM:

    " Proper grammer from you would be nice. Are you sure that you are even old enough to be playing on the computer? Did you get mommy's approval first? And sorry, but nothing justifies a woman being murdered. How thoughtless can you be? "

    With Respect wrote on Aug 5, 2008 9:05 AM:

    " Sorry, for the losses,but at the same time if these women(not all of them)would stop playing their games with these guys like putting restraining orders on them,then calling them two or three days later to meet them someplace,just maybe the murdering would stop.These women are partly at fault too.If the law would arrest both sides when a restraining order is made with any contact for both I think the murdering would stop.Women likes to play games!!!!!!Why, not they get away with it,these guys don't have a change when it comes to these crazy women.Both sides need to be looked at. "

    Ex-resident wrote on Aug 3, 2008 9:26 PM:

    " My heart goes out to the Peters family. There is so much more education and awareness of physical abuse now than there used to be, but it doesn't always make a difference. I was an abused wife in the 1960s, complete with broken bones, so an accelerated case. My husband was a police officer and my greatest fear was that he would kill me and the department would hide my body somewhere so he wouldn't get in any trouble. I finally left the state
    with my child and raised him alone, without support. It was accepted then. "

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