RECOVERING TODDLER

BY MARY CATHARINE MARTIN
THE DAILY IBERIAN
Published/Last Modified on Monday, March 17, 2008 2:12 PM CDT

When Amy Citrano first noticed a glare in the corner of her 2-year-old son Maddox’s eye last December, she had no way of knowing just how serious that glare was. She had no way of knowing that he was one out of 15,000 to 17,000 young children who develop retinoblastoma, a rare form of cancer on the eye.

Citrano said the glare looked “like glaucoma or a cataract.”

She was able to get an appointment with a doctor for Jan. 29.

3/14/08 Amy Citrano holds Maddox Citrano at home. Lee Ball/The Daily Iberian

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That’s when the doctor saw the tumor and sent her to an appointment with a surgeon, who diagnosed Maddox with retinoblastoma. They immediately contacted St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital in Memphis, Tenn.

That same week, Citrano, who is going through a divorce, was scheduled to move with the boys out of the house she shared with her husband, Travis.

“I felt like I was being swallowed by a black hole,” said Citrano of that week.

The day after she and her two sons, Maddox and Dominik, who are fraternal twins, moved into their new apartment, they drove the six hours to St. Jude.

Once there, Maddox’s doctors determined the tumor was beginning to break up and the best option was to remove Maddox’s eye.

To help them understand what was going to happen, the night before the surgery, nurses gave Maddox and Dominik a doll with a removable eye to play with. Citrano said Dominik made the connection, saying “Oh, he’s gonna be a pirate. Arrgh.”

The removal of Maddox’s eye — a procedure called enucleation — was performed Feb. 8. Maddox was well enough the next day to go home, although he developed pneumonia and had to go to Women’s and Children’s Hospital.

Dominik, Citrano said, “never ever looked at Maddox any differently.”

She showed Maddox his reflection in the mirror a few weeks after the surgery. When he saw himself, she said he just looked at her and said “That’s Maddox.”

Maddox will need to have checkups every six to eight weeks until he’s grown to make sure he doesn’t develop the cancer in his other eye.

He also will soon receive a prosthetic eye.

Citrano encourages parents to get their children’s eyes checked.

“You don’t think about it until it seems alarming,” she said. “It’s a rare and hard cancer to detect.

“I feel blessed because he’s cured; he’s cancer-free.”

Comments

    concerned mother of one wrote on Mar 31, 2008 4:17 PM:

    " Amy, just be glad and praise God that Maddox is cancer free and that Dominik don't have it. You have a lot to be thankful for and the Lord knows what is going on. Please him and don't worry about him. I'm praying for you and your whole family. "

    Unknown wrote on Mar 31, 2008 2:55 PM:

    " One more thing, the family of Travis and Amy needs to stay out of it. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything. Travis and Amy isn't bad mouthing each other they are just concerned about Maddox. Leave it along already. "

    Unknown wrote on Mar 31, 2008 11:17 AM:

    " I think that everyone should just leave it alone. Just pray for Maddox, Amy and Travis. They are going through a lot and need prayers. The negative needs to stop. God doesn't want you to talk about other people. Just pray for them and leave everything else alone. "

    Concerned.. wrote on Mar 29, 2008 10:25 PM:

    " To attention, before you write any comments about the bike club or anyone else, you really need to get your facts straight. The mother did not want 50% as you stated. All this rude comments need to really stop and just keep praying that the boys stay cancer free. "

    attention 3/29/08 wrote on Mar 29, 2008 1:25 PM:

    " I was told by a member of the bike club that Ms. Citrano wanted a whole 50% of the profits for Sunday. But, thank GOD they agreed to 80%-20%, that goes to show you want she is in it for. Plus, she gets all of the raffle monies. St. Jude doesn't get any of that. Thank God, St. Jude gave her little boy their 100%, plus. Keep praying for her little one. He is CANCER-FREE. I thank the bike club for sticking-up for St. Jude. Keep doing a great job for this little boy and all the others. "

    mother of four wrote on Mar 29, 2008 1:04 PM:

    " Well you won't be meeting the father, he won't be attending. The father has nothing to do with this event. It's the mother who approved this day. The father pays the child's bills out of his own pocket. I think he really needs the finiancial help here. You people who feel sorry for the mother, what about the Dad. "

    mother of 4 wrote on Mar 29, 2008 1:04 AM:

    " As I was reading some of this I just cried. People can be so mean. I personally can't wait until sunday. I want to meet this family and give them my heart felt prayers and support in person. Amy and Travis keep on keeping on, and loving your kids. That as we all know is the important thing. The parents have to be happy to raise happy children. I KNOW!!!! "

    Walter J. Derouen Jr. wrote on Mar 28, 2008 10:41 AM:

    " algiers5371

    Yes you will be able to buy dinners from 10:00am to 1:00pm at the plaza "

    algiers5371 wrote on Mar 27, 2008 9:51 PM:

    " Question if we want the Sunday barbeque dinners do we have to call a number in advance and if so what is that number I'm looking to buy five so far. "

    Dee wrote on Mar 26, 2008 2:55 PM:

    " For those of you who are leaving all of these comments about the parents and all of the rest of the mess that you're spewing...SHAME ON YOU. These poor parents are going through every parents nightmare. God forbid any of you have to ever go through anything like this with your children. I don't personally know Amy or Travis, but I feel hate they've been through. I can, without a doubt, tell you that neither of them were thinking about their divorce or child support or moving or anything else while there son was laying in the hospital. "

    Stacy R. Guillot wrote on Mar 26, 2008 10:08 AM:

    " To all of the people who continued to post negative comments after Travis and Amy requested you stop--SHAME ON YOU! The public does not need to know the trials and tribulations of this family. And if you have the guts to bad-mouth anyone, have the guts to say who you are. I just hope that the family continues to surround themselves with good people and God will continue to bless them! Love You, Maddie!!! Can't wait for you to get back from St. Jude's! "

    To Unknown With Ill Child wrote on Mar 26, 2008 9:11 AM:

    " I am truly sorry for your ill child, and I will pray for your child's good health. It was your decision to keep the illness private, and I respect that. However, what Amy and Travis were obviously trying to do was raise awareness about this rare form of cancer. I have a small child, and because of this story, I will have him checked. The ignorance of these comments is appalling. Who cares about the divorce, who did what, when, where, or why. What's important is that Maddox is okay. God Bless this family. "

    Pam wrote on Mar 24, 2008 10:28 PM:

    " I know what it is like to have a sick child...I have a daughter who has 3 chronic illnesses and I highly complement Travis for being there for his son...More fathers should step up to the plate and be a daddy not a fahter...I always say any male can be a father but it takes a special man to be a daddy...I just want anyone judging these people to stop because unless you walk thier shoes you have no place to judge...Travis is doing his part by still working and taking responsiblity for his children...my respect to Travis "

    Kyla, Kelly & Kassy wrote on Mar 24, 2008 9:38 PM:

    " Maddox & family you are in our thoughts & prayers ... we pray for you a successful future!!! God Bless!!! "

    GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH wrote on Mar 24, 2008 5:29 PM:

    " I often wonder why when someone is going through a storm in their lives people can still find it in their hearts to make such ugly comments..I also wonder why are these comments printed..I have made many uplifting comments and they don't get posted..I'll be surprise if this one is posted..If it is,my prayers go out to this family and know that God will never give you more than you can handle...I also pray for your family as a whole.. "

    unknown wrote on Mar 24, 2008 3:20 PM:

    " I agree with unknown, march 24th. I feel that the mother maybe asking more from the good people that have a good heart for children and adults alike. We don't use a persons sickness to benefit from. I think the mother has her hands struck in the cookie jar. How much can you plan for your childs future ,financially. I would thank any parents would be thankful for having their children healed from cancer not benefit from it. I pray for your child and for you. "

    unknown wrote on Mar 24, 2008 10:02 AM:

    " to respond to you are all just jealous,
    how immature of a person you are. Don't you know that the father has insurance on his sons that he is responsible for. So any time his children are in medical need. People quit hiding things and let the public know the whole truth. I think the 20% should go to the father to help him, not the mother. And this has nothing to do with hate, just be fair. "

    Concerned wrote on Mar 23, 2008 8:29 AM:

    " When I first read this story, I thought what an awful tradegy for this young child. A cancer diagnosis at such a young age with the loss of his eye are a heavy burden to bear. Then after reading all of the ridculous comments posted here I realized that these things are the least of this child's problems. When surronded by family and "friends" like this, this child has a much heavier cross to bare. Maddox, I am praying for your healing and that these negative people have NO influence in your life! "

    algiers5371 wrote on Mar 21, 2008 8:41 PM:

    " Thank you Mr. Derouen for the information I challenge everyone out there not only buy one for yourself or your own family buy one for a neighbor or other family members that day spread the kindness around! "

    Walter J. Derouen Jr. wrote on Mar 21, 2008 1:31 PM:

    " algiers5371 , You can pick up dinners at Bourbon Hall 113 West Main St from 10 am to 1pm Bourbon Hall is next to the Chamber Of Commerce and Victor's
    THANKS "

    algiers5371 wrote on Mar 20, 2008 5:06 PM:

    " I plan on buying dinners on the 30th for this cause but I do not know the location of the Bourbon Room as it was mentioned in the paper as the pick-up location. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family Mom and Dad be strong. I will mention the dinners to all those that I can for the 30th. "

    Amy Citrano wrote on Mar 19, 2008 3:36 PM:

    " Travis and I have come to a decision that we would like these comments to stop. We don't need anyone from either side defending us. We are both trying to move on and this is not good for either of us or our children. Please just focus on the real reason for all of this, which is MADDOX! We both want positive things to come out of his ordeal with cancer, not negative ones! I truly appreciate all that everyone has done and I would like to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart! "

    unknown wrote on Mar 19, 2008 2:08 PM:

    " I personally don't know of you, Ms. Citrano but, I can see where you are getting a little upset about the comments that are being made. I myself had an ill child and also was sent to St. Jude's. But, we keep our child's illness out of the spot light. You will get alot of good and bad comments about the story. You should have though about it before you made it public about your child. Now you have to deal with what people will have to say. No one to blame but, yourself. Sorry for you. "

    Travis Citrano wrote on Mar 19, 2008 1:49 PM:

    " Can everyone please stop with the comments and just pray for MADDOX CITRANO, Thanks TRAVIS "

    continued... wrote on Mar 19, 2008 10:15 AM:

    " Maddox was hospitalized the next day and St.Judes don't pay for that. Because of people like the ones making bad comments come to this, this is why people don't like helping out others when they do need it. This article was done very nicely and nothing said bad about anyone or the divorce. My prayers are with ALL the family in Maddox's recovery. Remember he is the one that this article if all about, NOT the Parents. "

    You are all just jealous... wrote on Mar 19, 2008 10:13 AM:

    " Don't y'all have anything else better to do than sit here and bad mouth Amy & Travis. Nothing was said bad about Travis in the articles, but it seems that his side friends and family are making thing him look bad. Yes Travis was there at the hospital, but for how long? He was NOT there for the surgery. Grow up people and get a life. St. Judes is getting 80% of proceeds. The 20% that Amy will get will help cover expenses down here that St. Judes don't cover. "

    UNKNOWN wrote on Mar 19, 2008 9:38 AM:

    " Well as a friend of the family i was wondering why Travis was never asked to be part of the raffles,and etc.That's his child to and he should have been part of that.But all he is worried about right know is praying and getting his child better.We are praying for the best for Maddox.
    god bless "

    unknown wrote on Mar 19, 2008 8:57 AM:

    " This really needs to stop as a reader who doesn't know either parent I can care less about the divorce or who did what or expenses. This aritcle had recovering toddler not parents of divorce. Comments will affect the parents which will affect the children. Allow the family to recover! Instead pray and let God do his job.....Maddox, Dominik, Amy, and Travis may God Bless You and guide you in life. "

    Amy Citrano wrote on Mar 19, 2008 7:51 AM:

    " Please by all means send your money to St. Jude the are heaven sent! The Iberiabank account set up with give 80% to St. Jude and 20% to Maddox. We are very grateful to them. I assure you Maddox will benefit from any donation he receives. His 20% if you need to know will benefit his future. If all you give are prayers GOD BLESS YOU! Before you type again maybe keep Maddox in mind instead of Travis or I! If you really care use your anger to fight cancer for Maddox and all his ST. Jude buddies! thanks "

    Amy Citrano wrote on Mar 19, 2008 7:31 AM:

    " Ok this is enough! It doesn't matter anything about Travis, I , or Our divorce the intention of this article was to make parents aware of his condition and early detection of it. If you want to read it differently then be my guess. We're not asking for handouts by any means, and I offered to help Travis with his expenses to go to Memphis he refused. Please get all the facts before you type! Unfortunely Travis wasn't able to stay the whole week with us at St. Jude due to work. "

    unknown wrote on Mar 18, 2008 3:16 PM:

    " This father took a week off of work to be with his children, when they most needed him. He lost wages, had to rent a car, a hotel and paid for his gas and he's not asking for any handouts. Did he ask for any donations to put toward his expenses, no! What he did ask for was for people like us, to pray for his baby. And we will keep praying for his family. There are many people with hard luck but, we live and learn from them. "

    w.r. wrote on Mar 18, 2008 3:06 PM:

    " For what i know, the father never made the mother move out of the house. It was court ordered.She couldn't afford the home so she settled for money, and had to be out of the home by february 1st. Than things turned for the worst for the family. The mother quit her job before her twins were born so I don't see where she's losing income. She recevies alimony and child support. All medical,gas, food and housing is totally donated thur the offerings of ST. JUDE, please send your donations there. For they are in need, for others. "

    Amy is great!! wrote on Mar 18, 2008 1:59 PM:

    " Sounds like a wonderful thing they are doing for Maddox. I bought some of the raffle tickets and I am planning to attend the function. I think the article was really nice and not once did Amy mention anything neg. about the father. What a woman. It is just sad that his family had to write something neg. I guess when you are not doing exactly right for you family it hurts and you have to write neg. comments to cover up for yourself. Keep you head up high Amy. "

    Sonya wrote on Mar 18, 2008 12:04 PM:

    " As I read this article ABOUT Maddox and the comments, it disturbs me that someone would think that Amy would even consider making it about her. That is the last thing on her mind is making a big deal about the divorce. I am a old time friend of Amy and I know that all that matters to her is Maddox and Dominik. There was just one line in the whole paragraph that stated that the had to move out the same week Maddox had his surgery. GOD PRAY for thoes who think otherwise. "

    unknown wrote on Mar 18, 2008 10:12 AM:

    " Darline, I don't see anything or anyone in the article bad mouthing the ex-spouse. Everyone know the truth behind all of this and it does not need to be discussed publicly. It is good that a group of bikers decided to help the child and mother. They are all good people. Keep Maddox in prayers and God will take care of him. "

    RG_New Iberia wrote on Mar 18, 2008 9:57 AM:

    " I am glad too see Maddox had a full recovery and is doing well at home with family & friends. May god continue to bless this family. "

    unknown wrote on Mar 17, 2008 7:15 PM:

    " My son had retinablastma at age 5 and had his eye removed. He is now in his late 40s and is fine. Always remember to treat your son as a normal boy . My son played with his siblings football, baseball, and many other sports . He was always treated as a normal person.The removal of his eye didn't handicap him
    God Bless!! "

    Darline wrote on Mar 17, 2008 3:28 PM:

    " As a friend of the family - the father of the twins was in Tennessee at the hospital with his children. He has been very supportive of his family - the divorce procedings was the last thing on Travis's mind - the well being of his child was his main concern. He has been supporting his family, finanically and emotionally since March, 2007 and is still presently supporting them. We only wish a healthy life for Maddox cancer free and our prayers are with him and his entire family. "

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